You are basically too interested to know as to who is doing what? What is your neighbor doing? He went to office or not? or he must have lost his job etc, you are too interested in all these. You just not only think about all that rut, but you also discuss all these with other people. The more you think about others, the more you tend to loose your energies. Also the more you think about someone, it will be as if meditating on that person. So all the bad habits, all the rut of that person will also drip into you just like the honey oozes. They are called VASANAS in sanskrit. Like a perfume smell, they start clinging to you and slowly you will get all his bad stuff and finally you become him. This is also called VISHAYA VANCHA as per Gita. It means interest in the matters which is food for your mind. It always needs some food. That is the reason why YOU ALSO WATCH MOST REELS on internet today. The developers of those platforms are so wise in terms of human psychology. So they dont let you bore your mind, they keep entertaining you and you keep watching them loosing your time. So that works like food to your mind. You wake up watching them, whenever you have time, you watch them. 

Those who are interested in these useless matters, they will loose their memory, they loose their intellect, they fall behind all their works and finally anger will come, because of that you will loose your balance and get destroyed totally one day. So think about it dear one! Wake up.